15 Ways..

15 Simple Ways To Keep Your Partner Happy

I came across this article from somewhere and yeeahh, I definitely have to agree with it. I know this is more suitable for couples who live together and probably more older working couples (not so much for young people who is still studying), but hey, it's somewhere along those lines! These are some of the few methods which I find it amusing and true! Take this for real as it may change one's fate.. :)

So you're in a relationship and your partner starts nagging. She tells you that you just don't understand her, and that she really wishes that you would just do more "little things."It's not the big things that make her happy; it's paying attention to the little details and showing you care that is really meaningful. She doesn't necessarily need lavish gifts -- she needs to know you're thinking about her.Here are some ideas to get you started doing these "little things" she really wants:

1. Rub her feet instead of asking her if she wants you to rub her feet. Make it look like you want to do it.

2. Make her dinner one night. Don't ask her if she wants you to make dinner. Make her dinner before she gets home.

3. Light a candle so that she arrives home to a nice environment instead of coming home to the glaring lights of the television and other things.

4. Send her a text in the middle of the day telling her "I miss your smile from this morning" or "Last night was amazing!" or "The conversation we had last night was great."

5. Send an eCard in the middle of the day... something cute to remind her how much you really care about her.

6. If she's going on a business trip, offer to drive her to the airport or pick her up to make her life that much easier.

7. Let her have control of the remote control. Don't monopolize it for a change. Just give it to her and let her actually sit there and enjoying watching one of her shows. Then you can share one of her interests by watching it with her.

8. Offer to iron one of her shirts or take her clothes to the dry cleaner.

9. Clean up the bathroom without being asked. Don't just sit there and ignore the mess around the toilet. If you know it drives her crazy to see water splashed all around the sink, dry that area after you use it.

10. If you work out together, enjoy it with her instead of rushing through your own workout and then not letting her workout at the same time.

11. Take a shower together, then wash her hair, scrub her back, and give her a spa treatment. Do this and enjoy it!

12. The next time she gives you a massage, give her a massage the next day. Offer it! Don't just say you'll give her a massage...do it!

13. Surprise her by making plans. Tell her, "We're going out tonight honey." You can even just go out for a drink or dinner somewhere. It's taking the initiative that's important.

14. Decide on and set aside one night a week as date night. Have a date like when you first started dating.

15. Call her in the middle of the day and just say hello. Don't wait for her to call you.It can be simple to keep her satisfied.


It's not necessarily about what you give her financially or what gifts you give her. That's a cop out. It's the little things. The guy who makes the biggest mistake is the one who ignores their significant other then all of a sudden give them an expensive gift to make up for it. That doesn't make up for it at all.
So, what do u think of it after reading? Take this opportunity to do something for your love ones before it is too late.

EMO-ness

Wen Jie being EMO.. The emo part of me always occupies me. Sometimes I would purposely listen to some sad songs and that made me nostalgic. Some songs that meant a lot to me are such as.. Be My 1004, Doushite(why have I fallen in love with u), One In A Million, When You Are Gone and a few of Jay Chou's songs.. Kok Siang told me several times to get rid of my emo-ness because it had been affecting me a lot in the past. I got over it bit by bit but not fully yet.. I need to keep myself occupy so that I wouldn't be able to think so much.. Argh... I need to work harder on it.. Who want to join me for Genting trip after my finals? Haha.. Let me know..

TVXQ

Dong Bang Shin Ki/TVXQ

WHO ARE THEY?


They are the very well-known Korean (Dong Bang Shin Ki/TVXQ) band singer..

They are good in many aspects such as, Dancing, Singing plus the additional (good looks) haha..

They were in the entertainment field for quite sometime already. If I am not wrong, it was 3 years back? But only now I started to appreciate their existance.. I am so outdated.

A few of their songs caught my attention. The best song for me is, "DOUSHITE".. The translation to it is, "WHY".. And also a few more of course.. I LOVE IT SO MUCH..

Awww.. Can't wait for their next new debut..

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_G-itI_Bg0c (DOUSHITE MV)

GYM

I PASSED the gym test today! I was very relaxed before entering the gym. But my stewpid friend la, asked me "Vege, why are you so relax?". Because of her words, it made me more nervous. LOL the friend that I've just mentioned is actually MAGGIE.. Not Maggie mee.. I knew her ever since the first day in hotel management course. She is actually very humorous and sometimes very helpful. By praising someone, I get the merits.. :P

The exam that I took requires me to do 8 repeatitions with the "exhale and inhale" breathing technique using the Gym equipments. Must do it at the correct speed and also need to memorize the name of the equipment.. Since it is over, GOOD..

Basically, nothing much happened. Dear is going to graduate this week.. Congratulations. I am so proud of you.. xxx

Durian Season is BACK!

Good harvest this year. Many durians were collected from the orchard. This picture just displayed the small part of them. Yum Yum~~~

Additional fruits available from the orchard. There were some rambutans collected from the orchard but not display here. Hahaha.
Tihs is my cousin brother in-law. He is an expert in selecting the best durians. All the durians he selected is the best among the best. LoL!!!

I expect more rewards from my father's hometown in the future. What will be available for my next visit? Still wondering. Darling, you can have some durians from my dad's hometown. ^^

Chaos

Yum Yum...

Someone did cook these for me...Delicious! TuT

Chaos

Sweet Gift from Darling~~~

This is the pendant gave by her for our 1st Month Anniversary...Nice and sweet! Hahahaz The pendant was printed with our sweet picture ^^.

But I didn't get her anything...Swt. Why??? Cause I am extremely busy with my studies recently. T.T
I will look into this when I am free, darling. Be patient. ^^

I love you always, WenJie
Chaos

Cure? Kill?

"THIS IS WHAT I HAVE BEEN EATING FOR THE PAST FEW WEEKS"

Due to too much consumption of chocolates, I start to feel the heaty-ness in my body.. The bad part of it is:
1) Throat starting to have war
2) Nose on marathon
3) Free stay (pimple) on my face
4) Body starting to expand (obesity?)

Mom scolded me for eating so much of those but I just couldn't help it :X
One thing about chocolate is that it helps to make us awake when we are sleepy and also a person who is emo will become not emo after eating it (Kok Siang's theory).. Is that true?

One thing about me is, I do not really like DARK CHOCO cos of the bitter-sweet taste.. But u see, dark chocolates are to be said that it contain FLAVONOIDS which help to prevent cancers, protect blood vessels, promote cardiac health and counteract mild hypertension which also means (high blood pressure).. I think with these points it is enough to influence me to start eating more of dark chocolates? Haha.. Maybe..

I LOVE CHOCOLATES.. Longing for more!!

Love?

To LIKE a person is EASY..
To LOVE it takes more EFFORT..
To SUSTAIN the LOVE is even HARDER..
To TRUST your partner it needs lots of UNDERSTANDING..
To make sure it is the EVERLASTING RELATIONSHIP, actions need to be taken.. As FEELINGS can come and also go..
Depends on how we want it to be..
For me, I would want it to be ETERNITY..
LOVE You...

A visit to Federal Hotel

A "trip" to federal hotel last Monday.. I was not there to enjoy, to stay, or for fun.. My course requires me to interview any hotel's manager available in KL.. Me n Joseph tried to call various of hotels but then got rejected.. Was so sad already cos afraid cannot accomplish the assignment on time.. But the only nice hotel which is FEDERAL accepted our interview.. FUH~~ We got there early cos it is not good to be late for appointment.. We did not manage to find that place at first.. We all assumed the building must be very tall and easily seen.. We got lost while searching.. Asked many people around there.. We came across some blur people who doesn't even know where it is.. Walking with formal attire.. Horrible! When we manage to get there, aik.. The building so timid and low.. Haha.. Unexpected one.. When we enter, the inner part of the hotel is awesome! The interior part of it..

Afterall, the interview went on smoothly and it was a successful one! Thanks to Mr. James for being co-operative..

p/s: Mun Suet, u say want more pictures in my blog.. Nah now u have it.. Lol..

THESE ARE SOME UP-CLOSE PICTURES TAKEN:

Life is all a bout Suffering..

As I came back home yesterday, what I did was on9.. My younger sister just appeared from no where and she were saying something in an angry tone "didn't reply my msg".. I was stunned and puzzled awhile.
I was asking myself, what the heck is she talking.. Remembered my phone battery was flat and I charged it (feed the phone with electric). The first msg I received was from her! Gosh.. No wonder la she was angry.. Not my fault ok.. Phone flat so how am I suppose to know if anyone msg or call me.. She was asking whether I will be back early from college cos family going to Assunta Hospital to visit my ex indian baby-sitter's husband.. I always call them uncle and auntie.. The bond we had is like they are part of my family though they are not related to me genetically.. At 5.30pm, me and family rushed to the Hospital to pay "uncle" a visit cos "auntie" say his condition is really bad already and he is awaiting his time to leave this realm..
Do u know how sad it is to know that u r already going to die and yet can't do anything but to see others grieve for u? He was at the point whereby he is almost giving up on himself.. But his relatives and those who cares for him always tells him to be more positive.. He says "i know my pain and sickness better".. He is now admitted to the HDU (High Dependency Unit).. The first thing I felt when I saw his condition I was starting to feel sobby already.. I couldn't hold my tears any longer till "auntie" started talking a bout her husband and how he suffered, OMG.. Me n my sister rash to the nearest toilet to cry out loud..
"Uncle" is so weak.. Wires every where over his body.. He is living with the help of "wires".. He couldn't walk, eat, sleep, urine and even talk properly.. When I was young I used to see him almost everyday cos I was brought there by my parents for baby-sitting.. I really miss the fragrance and yummy food (indian style) cooked by "auntie".. Fortunate enough cos every year during Festive season like Deepavali, "auntie" invites my whole family to her house and she will prepare us delicious and delicate food.. Till recently when so many of her relatives passed away, she cannot hold any celebration.. That are the "DO's and DONT's" that their culture practice..
I miss those times.. That was why when I saw "uncle" in such situation, I really don't know what to feel.. Just hope that God can ease his pain and don't make him suffer so much.. So People out there, if u think u r a pity, think a bout it once again.. There are so many beings out there who suffers more than u.. And while u still have the chance to enjoy life, LIVE LIFE TO THE FULLEST!

To Uncle, May U Be Free From Harm and Sufferings.. Bless U..

THE HOUSE-Not DR HOUSE

I had tried this scary website. It is a flash player game...And quite scary~~~for me...
Those who think their life is boring and need to spice up with some nightmare or horror, try to visit the website below...

http://fizzlebot.com/sinthai/room.htm


Chaos